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April 22, 2014 by Karen Jensen, MLS

Rant: Because Faking It isn’t Real, or Helpful

April 22, 2014 by Karen Jensen, MLS   2 comments

 

I admit, I have watched MTV for a long time. A LOOOONG time. I watched music videos and loved the VJs, and had my favorites. I watched the original Real World when it aired in 1992 (even though I had to hide it from my parents- they didn’t think it was appropriate as it was a little too extreme for our area). I watched when Real World: San Francisco was lauded for AIDS activist Pedro being honest about his story and his life. I have watched numerous episodes of True Life, watching teens document their real stories, and Catfish: The TV Show, where the dangers of online dating are exposed. I even watched the short lived WWE Tough Enough, where contestants were trying to become wrestling stars. I’ve seen 16 & Pregnant, Teen Moms, and other shows, and seen MTV become more television than music. It’s not on my favorite channel list on Roku, and I don’t tune in that often. I admit that I haven’t been able to get into Teen Wolf or Akward, but I haven’t really tried.

Across my Twitter stream the other day came #BanMTVsFakingIt, listed by some people that I actively follow and some I just browse. I follwed the thread, and then got curious. Faking It is a new teen show launching this week. Accoring to the New York Times:

Katie Stevens and Rita Volk star as Karma and Amy, best friends desperate to crack their school’s inner social circle. (As usual, there’s no obvious reason — looks, charm, body mass — why they shouldn’t already be there.) Karma is the more desperate of the two, and the show opens with her latest scheme, to generate sympathy by pretending to have been blinded by a sudden-onset brain tumor.
Within a few minutes of screen time, a better solution falls into their laps: They’re mistaken for a lesbian couple, and Karma realizes that they should play along: Being a brave, public same-sex couple in liberal Austin makes them instant celebrities.
That’s enough of a hook to make the show stand out, but it takes a further step (spoiler alert here) by making one of the girls realize that maybe she’s not just playacting her new sexual orientation. It’s a slightly melodramatic twist, though it raises the stakes from teenage farce to something with a little more emotional resonance.




Now, I’m sorry, but faking your sexuality, even if in the middle of the series one of the the girls realize that “maybe” they’re not playacting is hurtful and painful and just wrong.
I’ve read blogs that post on the opposite side of my opinion, noteably on
Tumblr from Kelly Quindlen :

Here’s the thing: Are parts of Faking It problematic? Sure. But when it comes down to it, I believe this show will do more good than harm. I am ecstatic over the kissing scene at the end of the pilot (I’ve watched it ten times). I’m even more ecstatic about the additional kisses shown in the Season 1 teaser. In a world where Glee dragged its feet for nine episodes (seriously?!) between confirming Brittany and Santana were a couple (S3, E4) and actually showing them kissing (S3, E13), it is a joy to have a show like Faking It, which shows Karma and Amy kissing in its teaser trailer.

When we watch Faking It, there will be no waiting around for the two queer/”queer” girls to show up on screen. They will be on screen in every scene. Karma and Amy’s story is not the subplot to a larger story about straight characters. (They are not Glee. They are not Pretty Little Liars.) Karma and Amy are the story. If the Faking It writers handle these characters responsibly—and I’m praying they will—we have a beautiful, heartening journey to look forward to.

and
Buzzfeed writer Jarett Wieslman:

 “Ten years ago, we would have never been able to put this show on telly,” said U.K.-born Gregg Sulkin (Pretty Little Liars, Wizards of Waverly Place), who plays Liam, Shane’s straight best friend who develops a crush on Karma. “This is a great opportunity for us to show the world that times have changed. This is the future, this is where things are headed, so get on board or get out of the way.”

The young cast’s universal attitude toward the message Faking It espouses — Be true to yourself and people will love you because of that — reinforces a perceptible moral shift among twentysomethings who have grown up in a world with representations of the LGBTQ community omnipresent in pop culture. 

They are more than welcome to their opinion.
The only hope I have for the show is that the creator works for the Trevor Project, and the Trevor Project itself is promoting the show on their site.
However.

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I’ve been working with GLBTQ/QUILTBAG teens for years. I have yet to have one not have a painful experience upon coming out to someone. I have yet to have one not have hazing/harassment/violence in school because someone suspected their sexuality might be different than the accepted norm.   (I’m not even going to touch the fact that the cast is pale beyond compare for Austin, Texas– my head already hurts.)
If you look to Twitter and other social media, or even in the majority of hometowns or local news, it’s not the case. If it was, we wouldn’t need services like The Trevor Project. GLBTQ/QUILTBAG teens wouldn’t be 5 times more likely to commit suicide than their straight peers. It wouldn’t be illegal to be gay and in love in 1/5 of the United States. I wouldn’t have teens takling to me about their relationships when their religion says they’re going to hell. There wouldn’t be protestors saying that fags are demons. There wouldn’t be postings like these on Twitter:

#BanMTVsFakingIt bc being out isn’t popular. It’s navigating a constant sea of ignorance if it isn’t violence.
— Kate Hackwood (@hackkitty) April 21, 2014

#BanMTVsFakingIt because i have regular panic/anxiety attacks when interacting with family over sexual preferences
— sunshine (@gaylifreyan) April 21, 2014

#BanMTVsFakingIt bc you can bet they won’t speak truth to my heart pounding every time I come out to someone.
— Kate Hackwood (@hackkitty) April 21, 2014

#LGBTQ folks have to decide when it’s safe to come out to someone every. single. day. of our lives. For our whole lives. #BanMTVsFakingIt
— just lust (@justynashley) April 21, 2014

Faking It is holding hands with your female friend bc u don’t want the other boys to beat u senseless #BanMTVsFakingIt
— Wesley King (@wesking) April 21, 2014

#BanMTVsFakingIt Being gay isn’t a cute trend or a choice. Coming out is one of the most emotional and difficult experiences for LGBT youth.
— CJ Griebenow (@griebyswag) April 21, 2014

#banmtvsfakingit because being mistakenly outed is actually pretty damaging and there are real kids who have to live with it
— robert, tiny terror (@robertbivouac) April 21, 2014

#BanMTVsFakingIt because being attracted to women has not boosted my popularity, it’s put me at odds with my family and friends
— sunshine (@gaylifreyan) April 21, 2014

RT “@swagperating: #BanMTVsFakingIt we dont need more men thinking lesbians are only pretending to be lesbians to appeal to the male gaze”
— kelley villa (@doublecardigan) April 21, 2014

#banMTVsfakingit because I was literally almost raped at age 13 by a grown man because “you know you only like boys and you’re delirious”
— Devil (@XSAVAGlSTX) April 21, 2014

#BanMTVsFakingIt because if these so-called Christians were truly following their Messiah’s message, orientation and gender wouldn’t matter
— Blog of Rěgret (@blogofregret) April 21, 2014

#BanMTVsFakingIt because Straight Camps exist for those of us that aren’t ‘faking it’
— the saint (@hail_the_saint) April 21, 2014



 The pilot has already “aired” everywhere in the free world.
The first episode airs April 22 on MTV.

Filed under: GLBTQ issues, MTV, Teen Issues

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About Karen Jensen, MLS

Karen Jensen has been a Teen Services Librarian for almost 30 years. She created TLT in 2011 and is the co-editor of The Whole Library Handbook: Teen Services with Heather Booth (ALA Editions, 2014).

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Comments

  1. Clementine says

    April 22, 2014 at 2:08 pm

    This is a really thought-provoking post. I haven't watched the show yet, but I've been reading a lot about the critical response so far and have been surprised at how positive much of it has been. I don't feel comfortable forming an opinion about the show without having seeing it, but I can appreciate how problematic the show is, based on its premise alone.

  2. Christie, Teen Librarian Toolbox says

    April 24, 2014 at 6:45 pm

    I can completely see your point, and I can hope that with The Trevor Project on board that it will turn into something positive. The problem a lot of people see is that something really personal is being used as entertainment fodder and not even realistically…. and it's extremely personal and hurtful to them. *sigh* I wish they had done something more realistic. I can wait and see, but I know it's not going to make my ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO SEE list- I'd rather read the recaps. 🙂

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